• Should I have sex with this guy's friend?

    Best answer: Whatever. Do it.
    Best answer: Whatever. Do it.
    20 answers · 10 hours ago
  • How do I be less ugly?

    Best answer: Develop your fine inner beauty — that’s what counts over time.
    Best answer: Develop your fine inner beauty — that’s what counts over time.
    36 answers · 3 days ago
  • Can you drink vodka straight up?

    i can't no matter how hard i try but if i drink water immediately afterwards its doable.
    i can't no matter how hard i try but if i drink water immediately afterwards its doable.
    19 answers · 1 day ago
  • Will ADHD make me stupid as I grow up?

    I have had ADHD for a while. When I found out I had it it made my self esteem really low. I think ADHD means I’m incapable of doing a lot of things. I’m scared that it can ruin my future. I used to keep sugar free diet to help it and it worked very well for me but now that I broke my diet I’m getting worse. Please... show more
    I have had ADHD for a while. When I found out I had it it made my self esteem really low. I think ADHD means I’m incapable of doing a lot of things. I’m scared that it can ruin my future. I used to keep sugar free diet to help it and it worked very well for me but now that I broke my diet I’m getting worse. Please help me. PS I cant take any ADHD pills because of my heart.
    20 answers · 1 day ago
  • Do you have a chronic medical condition that interferes with everyday life?

    How do you cope? Has it made you depressed/anxious?
    How do you cope? Has it made you depressed/anxious?
    15 answers · 19 hours ago
  • My girlfriend is highly uncomfortable with drinking, should I stop or should she respect it?

    I've been drinking for years, nothing out of control maybe a few times a month and thats on the heavier side but she struggles with anxiety and freaks out every time i do, I never get 'drunk' as I struggle with vertigo and get dizzy with too much alcohol but I do enjoy getting buzzed with my cousins and... show more
    I've been drinking for years, nothing out of control maybe a few times a month and thats on the heavier side but she struggles with anxiety and freaks out every time i do, I never get 'drunk' as I struggle with vertigo and get dizzy with too much alcohol but I do enjoy getting buzzed with my cousins and having the option to do so and she is trying to demand that I stop. I myself have struggled with severe anxiety for years but would never go as far as demanding that she stop something, is she wrong or do I need to stop drinking?
    18 answers · 3 days ago
  • Have you ever been through depression?

    i don't know what to do... i feel like i'm just in a horrible boring sad routine and my life will never get better. i am 17 and in my last year of high school.
    i don't know what to do... i feel like i'm just in a horrible boring sad routine and my life will never get better. i am 17 and in my last year of high school.
    11 answers · 13 hours ago
  • I have a plan to kill myself... decades from now.?

    I've decided I want to kill myself, but not now, or in a few weeks, or even a few months. My plan is to commit suicide once I've decided I'm no longer able to live independently. I have a friend in a nursing home, and I never, ever want to end up in that situation. So I've decided I want to live my... show more
    I've decided I want to kill myself, but not now, or in a few weeks, or even a few months. My plan is to commit suicide once I've decided I'm no longer able to live independently. I have a friend in a nursing home, and I never, ever want to end up in that situation. So I've decided I want to live my life to the fullest, check off everything in my bucket list, and when I feel that I've accomplished my goals and my life has been sufficiently fulfilling, I'll just... kill myself. I've even decided on the method, I know what my suicide note will say, and I have a good idea about what's going to be in my will. Is this... weird? I mean, should I see someone about this? Has anyone else ever considered this? It's been lingering in the back of my mind for a couple years now, but it doesn't feel bad, it just feels... normal. Like this is going to be just another part of the process. Step 1, go to college, step 2, get a job, step 3, start checking things off your bucket list, step 4, make sure to spend time with family and friends, step 5... commit suicide.
    28 answers · 5 days ago
  • My boyfriend can't control his anger and has been in jail a few times for assaulting me & was arrested again last night but I miss him ....?

    Last night he picked up a bedside table/ wooden cabinet thingy & whacked me across the face with it, giving me my 2nd black eye in less than a month. He's really kind & caring most of the time & has changed a lot since I met him (for the better) but he's so unpredictable & aggressive at... show more
    Last night he picked up a bedside table/ wooden cabinet thingy & whacked me across the face with it, giving me my 2nd black eye in less than a month. He's really kind & caring most of the time & has changed a lot since I met him (for the better) but he's so unpredictable & aggressive at times. It's usually when he's been drinking or taking drugs (he's a heroin addict, & recently been drinking to try to stop him taking drugs, but instead he's been doing both :/ I've said many times if he can't stop taking drugs he needs to leave (Ive had problems with addiction also since I got raped after growing up in an abusive home, but I want to sort my life out which Isn't easy with him begging me for money for drugs every day) but he says he will change so doesn't see the point leaving but that he's finding it hard & I say 'go and stay in a hostel & when you're clean you're more than welcome to return' but he says he's scared in case I leave him. I feel like he's wrecking my life but I was soooo depressed before I met him & feel so lost with out him. I have Aspergers as well as mental health problems so don't have many friends & for a year before meeting him I was alone almost 24/7 (suffering from agoraphobia so couldn't leave my flat) so i love the fact that he doesn't want to be anywhere but with me , but obviously I hate when he's aggressive & possesive & don't know what to do. He was arrested last night & now in jail but I don't know when he'll be out or what to do when he returns ?
    10 answers · 17 hours ago
  • Should I avoid all fats if I want to lose weight?

    Best answer: SOME fat is necessary for good health. But not very much. and its pretty hard (even on purpose) not to get all the necessary fat from just normal healthy food. NO saturated fats are necessary. If your body needs more saturated fat - it can make some. Fat should never make up more than 30% of your calories.... show more
    Best answer: SOME fat is necessary for good health. But not very much. and its pretty hard (even on purpose) not to get all the necessary fat from just normal healthy food.

    NO saturated fats are necessary. If your body needs more saturated fat - it can make some.

    Fat should never make up more than 30% of your calories. Under 20% is a good goal. but no less than 10%.

    Fat has 9 calories per gram. So let's say you have a 2000 calorie diet. 20% of 2000 calories divided by 9 equals 44 grams. One whopper is 40 grams. A small fries has 15. So in one small meal, you have already exceeded your daily fat content.
    9 answers · 10 hours ago
  • How do you cope with really cold weather, I'm getting depressed?

    Best answer: well if you/re not getting much sun, a doctor would probably tell you to take vitamin d during the winter. people tend to get short of vitamin d in the winter, from lack of sun, and yes being short of vitamin d tends to make them... depressed. it's apparently also helpful to get a plant grow lamp and shine... show more
    Best answer: well if you/re not getting much sun, a doctor would probably tell you to take vitamin d during the winter.

    people tend to get short of vitamin d in the winter, from lack of sun, and yes being short of vitamin d tends to make them... depressed.

    it's apparently also helpful to get a plant grow lamp and shine it on yourself once in a while in the winter. light therapy they call it. again it has to do with the fact that you're not getting much sun.

    aside from that, well, ok yeah just deal with it. it'll be spring soon.
    10 answers · 3 days ago
  • What is all that you really want in life?

    Best answer: I Need My Love
    Best answer: I Need My Love
    31 answers · 5 days ago
  • Do you hate people as much as I do?

    Best answer: Yes, I hate those annoying idiots too. I'm a 20 year old male and I know exactly what you're talking about. The best thing we can do is to ignore those ancient-minded nosy freaks.
    Best answer: Yes, I hate those annoying idiots too. I'm a 20 year old male and I know exactly what you're talking about. The best thing we can do is to ignore those ancient-minded nosy freaks.
    15 answers · 3 days ago
  • What would you do if you were in my shoes?

    Im 18 years old, im suicidal, my older brother whos 20 always bullies me, im always in my room- being on my computer or my phone (on a daily basis), i dont have a job, i failed graduating highschool two times (thats why im suicidal and because of my dad), i have no friends,i dont have a boyfriend, rarely go... show more
    Im 18 years old, im suicidal, my older brother whos 20 always bullies me, im always in my room- being on my computer or my phone (on a daily basis), i dont have a job, i failed graduating highschool two times (thats why im suicidal and because of my dad), i have no friends,i dont have a boyfriend, rarely go out. Why im suicidal bc of my dad was bc of what he said when i failed for the first time- "If you fail again, im kicking you out, go live somewhere else". I was 17 at that time. Thats where i became suicidal. felt like i was some trash he wants to throw out of his life for good. He caught me once, trying to cut myself- took the razors away. I know he watches what he says, because he knows im suicidal. Today, he talks in a way to encourage me and not hurt me like what he did when i failed graduating for the first time. Ive been like this for 4 or 5 years. Of being quiet, shy, being holed up in my room, not communicating, no friends, rarely going out. Why i do this is because i dont want to be taken advantage of again. Mentally and physically. I was vilified, beaten, lied to before. By my friends of friends... all my friends. Im 18 years old today, will be 19 in May. Im very lost. I dont know how to do a 'fresh start' or when to do it. Ive done bad things as a kid. Smoked weed, cigarretes, stole things, lied, etc. In school, the suicidal part of me grows even larger. Im doing kinda good on my 3 classes..sometimes i want to leave. Wwyd if you were in my shoes?
    14 answers · 4 days ago
  • Are Catholics only suppose to listen to no secular music types or genres?

    Hey all, I've been wanting to know the Catholic belief on certain types of music. I've been wanting to change from a Atheist/Agnostic with a slight Anglican background to a Catholic. For personal reasons and of my own free will. I just don't believe as much as what I do with Catholicism as the other one... show more
    Hey all, I've been wanting to know the Catholic belief on certain types of music. I've been wanting to change from a Atheist/Agnostic with a slight Anglican background to a Catholic. For personal reasons and of my own free will. I just don't believe as much as what I do with Catholicism as the other one Anglican I much prefer and believe Catholic beliefs over Protestant beliefs. But since I was kid i was a Atheist/Agnostic and I loved heavy metal I was introduced by my older adopted brother I was adopted he was my older non blood related brother and I actually like it to be honest 2007-2008 I started listening to things like Metallica , Slipknot (I adore them and still do I like my religion alot more though), Machine Head, BFMV, Blink 182 ect ect. So is this extremely sinful? i don't honestly believe the BS about vulgar words or meaning of the song if its vulgar being wrong to me its a form of art a artist want to get across it dosen't really mean they follow Satanism or whatever, its like TV and reality to me ect. The only reason I see with bands that are really heavy is the use of Satanic poster or album art, I mentioned before the band Slipknot I think there a great band one of my favourite but the use of the pentagram and goat especially bothers me a tiny bit. But I honestly believe aslong as I dont follow Cults, the Masons or do Secular or Satanic things in inspiration or listening to it I don't think its completely evil or anything.
    8 answers · 17 hours ago
  • Are authors who are not published by the time they are 30 failures?

    J K Rowling and many other famous writers had their first book published when they were thirty. I feel if I do not get my book published before I'm 30 next year, I am a failure.
    J K Rowling and many other famous writers had their first book published when they were thirty. I feel if I do not get my book published before I'm 30 next year, I am a failure.
    8 answers · 20 hours ago
  • I have a question for any political party members back in the 1940's?

    Does anyone recall a book called "A tree grows in Brooklyn" well, I do. Why? Because the author was my Great Aunt !! that's why you knuckleheads !! try reading a book/.
    Does anyone recall a book called "A tree grows in Brooklyn" well, I do. Why? Because the author was my Great Aunt !! that's why you knuckleheads !! try reading a book/.
    8 answers · 1 day ago