• Are you a perfectionist?

    Best answer: yes I try to do as good as possible
    Best answer: yes I try to do as good as possible
    37 answers · Mental Health · 2 days ago
  • My parents found everything. help.?

    so my dad walks into my room saying we need to talk. he’s not a very deep person so i was already terrified. then he explains that my mum had found my diary. in my diary are entries about self harm, friend troubles, a relationship i kept hidden amd even me talking about not wanting to eat. i don’t know what to... show more
    so my dad walks into my room saying we need to talk. he’s not a very deep person so i was already terrified. then he explains that my mum had found my diary. in my diary are entries about self harm, friend troubles, a relationship i kept hidden amd even me talking about not wanting to eat. i don’t know what to do. my dad keeps saying it’s ok but i know my mum’s going to act differently. i should add that my parents are divorced and i’m at my dad’s house until tomorrow. i’m guessing they’re going to take me to therapy again which i really don’t want to do. one thing i want to make clear is that i was doing fine on my own, i was coping. the only thing that was stopping me from losing motivation in life was my parents. i kept thinking “as long as they don’t know, i can keep focusing on school etc”. now that they know, that motivation has gone. i haven’t gotten out of bed all day and honestly never want to again. my mum is inevitably going to try to talk to me about it too, which i don’t want to happen. i don’t want to talk to anyone. please help.
    12 answers · Mental Health · 15 hours ago
  • How predictable is the Left's fake outrage after the Trump/Putin meeting?

    Best answer: They were going to trash him no matter what happened. The left needs the anti Russian agenda until they get a democrat back in power.
    Best answer: They were going to trash him no matter what happened. The left needs the anti Russian agenda until they get a democrat back in power.
    16 answers · Mental Health · 1 day ago
  • Atheists you KNOW you can't prove God doesn't exist so you are defeated. Christians you KNOW you can't prove God exists so you are defeated?

    One side makes makes "positive" claims about non existence & the other side makes "positive" claims about existence. Neither side can back up their positive claims with proof. So, why can't atheists & Christians admit they are just as lacking in knowledge as each other?
    One side makes makes "positive" claims about non existence & the other side makes "positive" claims about existence. Neither side can back up their positive claims with proof. So, why can't atheists & Christians admit they are just as lacking in knowledge as each other?
    18 answers · Mental Health · 9 hours ago
  • Milk coming out of my breast?

    I am 16 and a virgin so from like the past 6 months or so a white liquid has being coming out of my breasts (i think its milk from the taste and look).It comes out on its own even when i dont touch my boobs.Yesterday i went out braless and within 4-5 hours the chest area of my romper was stained and i felt... show more
    I am 16 and a virgin so from like the past 6 months or so a white liquid has being coming out of my breasts (i think its milk from the taste and look).It comes out on its own even when i dont touch my boobs.Yesterday i went out braless and within 4-5 hours the chest area of my romper was stained and i felt embarrassed.WHAT DO I DO AND WHAT IS IT???
    10 answers · Women's Health · 1 day ago
  • It’s 8am I’m ready to start my day, give me a slap on the a$$..?

    Best answer: *slap*
    Best answer: *slap*
    14 answers · Mental Health · 11 hours ago
  • I don’t moan when I oragasm and masturbate? I’ve never had sex, and I’m a female. Whenever I masturbate, I have heavy breathing sometimes.?

    But I never moan. Why does this happen?
    But I never moan. Why does this happen?
    9 answers · Women's Health · 1 day ago
  • I feel depressed now suicidal?

    Im 23 years old. Broke with no job. Been a depressed loner all my life nothin new. No matter how hard I try it's life destiny is designed for me to do nothin but fail. Nothing is real. Nobody's a friend. They all change in a bad way towards and fvck off in the end. I have a very little experience in my life... show more
    Im 23 years old. Broke with no job. Been a depressed loner all my life nothin new. No matter how hard I try it's life destiny is designed for me to do nothin but fail. Nothing is real. Nobody's a friend. They all change in a bad way towards and fvck off in the end. I have a very little experience in my life with women. But from the few times I thought a girl liked me, they played me in the end. When you wanna go homebase and further things. They act cold. And fvck off from me like they never new me. I have no love in my life. And that kills me. The world repels me. I hate being trapped in the same city. I don't have a car to go anywhere. No money for the train. It's always the second things I see. It's like prison. That's why i hate money. Mobey is the only thing that will make you get places. I hold my head at how I'm so fvckd there's no way out this torment. Nothing is going right. Nothing to feel happy about. Nothing going.
    11 answers · Mental Health · 2 days ago
  • Hello.. Do most woman swallow semen after sex?

    Me and my GF been having sex for a couple of years now.... One thing she told me she would never do is swallow my semen.. I hate having to ejaculate on her chest and or on top of her butt.... I told her many times why don't she just eat it instead of just making a huge mess.. She told me because she's not a... show more
    Me and my GF been having sex for a couple of years now.... One thing she told me she would never do is swallow my semen.. I hate having to ejaculate on her chest and or on top of her butt.... I told her many times why don't she just eat it instead of just making a huge mess.. She told me because she's not a porn star... And I said, 90 percent of woman swallow, and I think it's sexy.... She got mad at me and told me that I'm using her as an object instead of expressing my love to her.. That's far from the truth... I actually want to marry her someday and make babies... I know I can wear a condom to avoid the mess but honestly I'm really good at pulling out and having a condom on makes the sex last too long.... Anything more than 10 minutes is just boring to me..
    16 answers · Men's Health · 24 hours ago
  • What do I say to people who say of my anxiety and depression "it is your choice whether to be anxious or depressed"?

    Best answer: I think the main reason why people say this is that they don't distinguish between mood and *mood disorders*. There are situations in which things like "snap out of it," "things could be worse" make sense - when you're having a bad day. They just don't get you out of a case of major... show more
    Best answer: I think the main reason why people say this is that they don't distinguish between mood and *mood disorders*. There are situations in which things like "snap out of it," "things could be worse" make sense - when you're having a bad day. They just don't get you out of a case of major depression.

    Another thing is that there's a little grain of truth in the "suck it up" theory. It's not that going to work makes a case of major depression go away. Of course it doesn't. But it helps. A famous psychiatrist, Abraham Low, pointed out that going about one's daily activities as close to normal as possible, maybe a bit slower than usual, is therapeutic. It makes the patient feel more confident. It reduces the risk of things that make the depression worse, like getting fired and flunking out of school. This idea has been proved correct for generations.

    Low said, when we can't control our feelings, we can still control our muscles. This is very important. When people don't feel like taking a shower, they can tell their legs to get them to the bathroom for a shower. It works.

    Maybe I should mention that there are things besides psychotherapy that can help with anxiety and depression. You might have a really good therapist, but professionals tend to focus on their own fields - psychologists on psychology, doctors on medicine. A poll showed that a lot of therapists are not counseling about basic lifestyle choices, and there's good evidence that these can help.

    Lifestyle therapy is easy if not downright fun. Details in my recent answers.

    "Why stress turns into depression" - Psychology Today

    https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/in-practice/201303/why-stress-turns-depression
    13 answers · Mental Health · 2 days ago
  • Uncircumcised penis grosses me out?

    Best answer: That's because it's very disgusting. It's hygienically unsanitary.
    Best answer: That's because it's very disgusting. It's hygienically unsanitary.
    29 answers · Men's Health · 3 days ago
  • My dad caught me masterbating?!? I’m a girl and 14?

    Okay so I got home from hanging out with friends and I saw that no cars were in the driveway. So I got my back massager and started to..ya know. I was moaning veryyy loud cause 1. I was extremely horny, and 2. No one was home (so I thought) But then I got a text from my mom saying “I went off to the store, dads in... show more
    Okay so I got home from hanging out with friends and I saw that no cars were in the driveway. So I got my back massager and started to..ya know. I was moaning veryyy loud cause 1. I was extremely horny, and 2. No one was home (so I thought) But then I got a text from my mom saying “I went off to the store, dads in the room sleep” I FREAKED OUT. My room is right across from my parents, even even if he was sleep I was moaning extremely loud. I JUST DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO,I JUST WANNA STAY IN MY ROOM AND SLEEP
    25 answers · Women's Health · 3 days ago
  • Me and boyfriend tried period sex last night he went down?

    Yeh so we tried period sex it still felt good he was moaning still it was our first time trying period we normally just wait ,but it going fine and then his mum and his sister xame home so he got nervous as sometimes they come up the stairs and he went down! This is what he said I don’t thjnk he got grossed out he... show more
    Yeh so we tried period sex it still felt good he was moaning still it was our first time trying period we normally just wait ,but it going fine and then his mum and his sister xame home so he got nervous as sometimes they come up the stairs and he went down! This is what he said I don’t thjnk he got grossed out he isn’t really like that it takes a lot for him to be grossed out
    7 answers · Women's Health · 2 days ago
  • Is a diet of mostly honey ok?

    10 answers · Diet & Fitness · 4 hours ago
  • Are you all gas and no brakes?

    11 answers · Mental Health · 11 hours ago