• [Anxiety] How can I overcome feelings of guilt?

    Hi all, Recently I was in a flight were I seated in the wrong seat, and, when the person who would seat there brought it to my attention, I said she could have my seat, if she preferred (I was supposed to be in the window seat, but I asked to change for the aisle seat because I go very frequently to the bathroom).... show more
    Hi all, Recently I was in a flight were I seated in the wrong seat, and, when the person who would seat there brought it to my attention, I said she could have my seat, if she preferred (I was supposed to be in the window seat, but I asked to change for the aisle seat because I go very frequently to the bathroom). She and her boyfriend then had the window and middle seat and didn't seem to care about it. However, the lady passed out during the flight, and she received medical assistance for the rest of the flight (which was 3 hours and 30 minutes long). Apparently, she didn't die. Long story short, I've been feeling guilty ever since because I thought that she fell ill because she was in a more "enclosed" seat and probably passed out due to lack of movements or whatever. I feel that if I didn't ask for her to change seats, she wouldn't had gone through this. What are your advices for making me feel better? Do you guys think that I'm overreacting? Thanks
    7 answers · Psychology · 1 day ago
  • Why don't men like it when a woman has tattoos?

    Usually
    Usually
    114 answers · Gender Studies · 2 days ago
  • What should I do? My life sucks and I think of him as my salvation, should I go and look for him?

    Please read it til the end and give me your sincere advice. I am a migrant girl (white but not christian). I wear just like western girls. I was born in a country where I was badly bullied for my origins (broken nose, racist teachers, some of them were just bigots and other gave me 8 when I deserved 9,5 or 10... show more
    Please read it til the end and give me your sincere advice. I am a migrant girl (white but not christian). I wear just like western girls. I was born in a country where I was badly bullied for my origins (broken nose, racist teachers, some of them were just bigots and other gave me 8 when I deserved 9,5 or 10 basically the other kids would do nothing at school they weren't able to learn the simplest concepts but teachers encouraged them and treated them right, I was always treated like a piece of s***). Anyway, in high school a teacher mobbed me everyday together with the principle (he knew it but he said it was my fault) but didn't allow me to change school (I wanted to change school in order not to be psychologically abused by them, then I managed it but with a lawyer, because they didn't allow me to). Result? I am depressed, my grades don't count anything in a racist country. I went away from it but I'm sad about my life and the dreams I had as a kid. Everything is worthless. I want to find the boy I fell in love at first sight when I was 13. He was kind amd polite, and as beautiful as an angel. He was sad too because he had to sell things (he was a street seller) to help his family. I don't know maybe he will understand me and accept me for who I am. I am craving for someone to love me. I would love him with whole my heart. What should I do? Find him or he'll think I am crazy?
    32 answers · Psychology · 3 days ago
  • Why is slut-shaming even a term?

    are women saying its ok to be sluts? its ok for your gf, wife, sister, mother to be sluts?i weep for the future.
    are women saying its ok to be sluts? its ok for your gf, wife, sister, mother to be sluts?i weep for the future.
    9 answers · Gender Studies · 4 hours ago
  • Do you think age is just a number?

    136 answers · Sociology · 5 days ago
  • Is what my misandric girlfriend said here too harsh on me and men in general?

    Best answer: You need to run out and get a wedding ring today! By all means, do not, and I mean DO NOT let this gem slip away, you need to marry her ASAP! Hurry up, go! Turn the computer off and get that ring now!
    Best answer: You need to run out and get a wedding ring today! By all means, do not, and I mean DO NOT let this gem slip away, you need to marry her ASAP! Hurry up, go! Turn the computer off and get that ring now!
    17 answers · Gender Studies · 2 days ago
  • Am I possessed???

    I’ve been having reacquiring sleeping paralysis.My warning signs at first are the noises of distant people talking Once I “open my eyes I see everthing like if I’m awake, except when I try to move. Hearing the voices creeps me out. Sometimes I actually feel like I’m moving or even walking to then wake up and... show more
    I’ve been having reacquiring sleeping paralysis.My warning signs at first are the noises of distant people talking Once I “open my eyes I see everthing like if I’m awake, except when I try to move. Hearing the voices creeps me out. Sometimes I actually feel like I’m moving or even walking to then wake up and realize i was laying down the whole time.There had been experiences where my mother are is in the room speaking to me.But to my surprise waking up to her not there.I even “fall”off my bed and am paralyzed on the floor staring at the ceiling above and or other objects around me. Some voices I hear are the laughter of a young female voice usually behind me. Although the voice is creepy I’m not afraid of the voice. When I was younger I used to sleep walk on to my moms bed knowingly remembering that I climbed on the bed yet woke up confused by the fact that I wasn’t awake and or in control of my body. This happened every night until she had put a picture of Jesus on my side of the room. Once I vividly remember “waking up”seeing a white glowing body sitting legs crossed watching my mom. (my mom and I share rooms but separate beds). And something similar happened when I was starting and a black figure staring down at me from the ceiling. I recently have been watching Insidious movies and the out of body experiences the characters have are similar to what I’ve had all my life.These are all very true I wouldn’t waste my time writing this long of a paragraph on a lie.Please help’
    6 answers · Psychology · 18 hours ago
  • How can I hang myself without a high place like three?

    It's not a cry for attention or any ****,life is hard and I can't take it anymore, so if you don't wanna help don't comment.I have a small rope and I'm alone
    It's not a cry for attention or any ****,life is hard and I can't take it anymore, so if you don't wanna help don't comment.I have a small rope and I'm alone
    29 answers · Psychology · 3 days ago
  • How to cope with racism and hatred?

    Best answer: Avoid the haters. Racists have poor iq level and end up embarrassing themselves so better ignore.
    Best answer: Avoid the haters. Racists have poor iq level and end up embarrassing themselves so better ignore.
    7 answers · Psychology · 22 hours ago
  • Men hate women?

    Best answer: No, we certainly didn't. But you as­sholes are certainly pushing your luck at this point
    Best answer: No, we certainly didn't. But you as­sholes are certainly pushing your luck at this point
    18 answers · Gender Studies · 1 day ago
  • I constantly feel like I m being watched and mind read by something. Am I psychotic?

    For about 4-5 years, I have felt like I am being watched or read like I m on some sort of reality show. It s gotten to the point where I have to fake thoughts so they won t know what I m thinking because it is embarrassing. I cannot even act the way I use to because I m constantly thinking about what I m doing,... show more
    For about 4-5 years, I have felt like I am being watched or read like I m on some sort of reality show. It s gotten to the point where I have to fake thoughts so they won t know what I m thinking because it is embarrassing. I cannot even act the way I use to because I m constantly thinking about what I m doing, even when completely alone! It honestly feels as if everything I do is influenced by this, and it is getting worse. If anyone could recommend something that could educate me on this and if this is something to go to a mental ward about, I would be very grateful.
    12 answers · Psychology · 2 days ago
  • What are your thoughts on the #metoo witch hunt?

    Best answer: It has been hijacked by revenge and attention seekers as well as gold diggers. At the expense of people who actually have been harmed and are getting lost in all the venal hype.
    Best answer: It has been hijacked by revenge and attention seekers as well as gold diggers. At the expense of people who actually have been harmed and are getting lost in all the venal hype.
    24 answers · Gender Studies · 2 days ago
  • I feel uncomfortable around other people?

    I feel uncomfortable around other people and often do not talk to people. I even feel awkward or uncomfortable around my own parents and other family. Not to a point where it’s as bad as meeting other strangers, but still sometimes I feel somewhat uncomfortable. I really like being alone. Is it something wrong with... show more
    I feel uncomfortable around other people and often do not talk to people. I even feel awkward or uncomfortable around my own parents and other family. Not to a point where it’s as bad as meeting other strangers, but still sometimes I feel somewhat uncomfortable. I really like being alone. Is it something wrong with me? Or is it something I’ll get over?
    8 answers · Psychology · 2 days ago
  • Why has been most of the geniuses in our time have been man and not women?

    what, women not smart enough? women dumb? HA-HA!
    what, women not smart enough? women dumb? HA-HA!
    18 answers · Gender Studies · 2 days ago